Patrick Stewart on the Subject of Domestic Violence

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

HELPFUL HINTS TO SURVIVE THE HOLIDAYS




The holiday season is approaching and for some, it is a joyful time of year, and for others, it becomes one of the most grueling painful sentences of living and surviving. It is to these folks, I want to reassure them, it does get a little easier with time- truly, it does…

Now, I’ve got to admit, I don’t know how many holidays I couldn’t keep my tears from shedding from missing my, ‘other’ children, (as I refer to them as such anymore,) and how badly my heart was aching. Even now, I still get that twinge of my heartstrings being pulled, to let the bottom drop out, (sort of speak,) but, I guess after all of this time, (twenty-four years later,) I have come to some form of an acceptance that, this is the way my life is meant to be and I do an affirmation of this. That little twinge goes away while in my mind, I think of them fondly and wish them a Merry Christmas- then I let all thoughts of them leave while I busy myself with what I need to do. Usually, preparing our feast- and what a glorious feast it is! *smile*

I have already walked the path that many of you are walking right now, “been there, done that, and don’t ever want to do it again,” *chuckle*. But, I do want to help you get through this season and time of year and possibly make you a little stronger as you continue either, your battle after the holidays or even your journey of being able to feel alive- like you matter in this world too. Trust me, it takes a lot within yourself to get to this way of thinking, but you’ll get there.

So, here we go HELPFUL HINTS TO SURVIVE THIS TIME OF YEAR!

1.) Don’t get drunk by yourself! This causes you to think and ‘cry in your beer.’ If you do drink, be around others who makes you laugh! This is a must because you need to be around people who will help you keep your mind on other things.

2.) Don’t be by yourself! Be around others who makes you laugh! Allow yourself to laugh!

3.) Give yourself permission to go out and enjoy what you like to do.

4.) Give yourself permission to enjoy the holiday season.

5.) If you’re not allowed to be with your children on Christmas day, stay out of the kid isles in the stores! Bypass them all together!

6.) If you just can’t get your children out of your mind for awhile each day, sit down and write a letter to them, or make something you know they’d love to have.

7.) Get outdoors if the weather permits and take along a headset you can listen to while you walk or jog. Choose music that inspires you and avoid music that brings you down with memories. Also, choose new music, not what the kids liked or would like.

8.) Most importantly of all…… PRAY FOR STRENGTH TO MAKE IT THROUGH YOUR DAY…………………………..

I hope these hints help- they helped me during my time of trying to endure my own personal hell.
-Abby

Friday, November 20, 2009

Does This Anger You?

I ran across this blog piece that was written and posted on http://my.barackobama.com/page/community/post/benness/CWDm

I don't know who the author of this article is, but I do think they wouldn't mind this being posted where even more people could read it. Please read it in it's entirety as it's very informative. Comments are welcomed! -Abby


The United States government says our soldiers are fighting and dying to help protect Iraq citizens and develop Democracy for the Iraq government, when the US government can not protect the citizens from our own government agency, Child Protection Services, and allow this agency to terrorize millions of families by violating their Constitutional and Human Rights, as hearsay is the only aspect of usage in court to remove children from their parents.

US citizens pay billions of dollars of taxes for the government agency, Child Protection Services, CPS, to facade "protection", but really commit harm children, defame parents, and destroy families, as CPS, functions on hearsay, subjective, biased, opinionated, and careless lack of 'investigating', and the judges fail to honor their taken oath, but just simply rubber stamp anything said by the CPS workers, without evidence.

The United States of America, allows this government agency, Child Protection Services, CPS, to violate both the Constitution and Human Rights. Many children are abused and murdered at the hands of strangers, given by CPS. This agency is the human trafficking big money laundrying busines that is held under a cloak of secrecy, as there is no one to go to for help. Citizens are forced to surcume. As complaints are sent to the Federal Government, the feds only tell the citizens to take their complaint back to the people that are committing the crimes against them. There is no avenue of protection against this agency, who has no over sight or responsible for their crimes. If anyone calls with hearsay false allegations just to get a parent in trouble, CPS, will remove children from the innocent parent, without investigating, but will commit perjury in court to remove the parental rights from the parent, and adopt the children out under the federal incentive program to make huge re-imbursements for the state.

Not all children removed from families by Child Protection Services, is really in need of aide. Many children are removed by false allegations, but the CPS workers are negligent, and fail to truly investigate. As a matter of fact, once a child is removed from a home, parents are rarely honored of their rights for the truth to be exposed, as the judges merely rubber stamp the arrogant perjurious statements of allegations without any evidence or proof of their claims.

Many children would not have psycho-social issues in need of care if the government agency, Child Protection Services, was an agency of professionalism, with the ability to know the difference of truth vs fiction, objective vs subjective, and actually investigate allegations, rather than allowing their biased, cultural, opinion, from clouding the issues that are to be investigated. There is no room for the CPS' subjective personal biases, as every family is as individual as a snowflake. Not one family is exactly alike. CASA will only side with CPS, the push is to gain children for the profit of federal incentives and big bonuses, not the welfare of the children.

Therefore, helping children to become strong emotionally, mentally, and physically, with a positive self-esteem and self-worth, is not to remove them from their homes, unless there is a definite immediate threat for harm. Families may need assistance, financial support, medical availability, or education and direction to promote well-being as a family unit. However, CPS ignores their own policies and procedures, as they willingly with glee use routine tactics to remove the children from their home to force the parents additional stressors, of which is not the answer. I know what CPS does. I know their lies, willingness to commit perjury, falsification of court records, and their lack of fear to be held accountable or responsible for the harm caused by their lack of performing duties in the best interest of the children and families, rather than the best interest for the states to gain more federal bonus money or grants for the state.

Children in the US are stolen from safe homes, in order to make large profit for baby/child trafficking, in state, out of state, and internationally. Children are in danger all over the world, and that includes the United States, especially, in the state of Indiana. Many in society have become desensitized to the horrific actions taken upon innocent, precious, children. My heart is full of sorrow to have been shown the truths regarding how our elected officials fail to act upon the issues and ignore the cries of so many. From abortions of human beings, to abuse, rape, and murder, of the defenseless children, we are living in a society that has become as barbaric and heathenism as ever known. I am outraged, that elected officials down play the issues of many that suffer.

With much prayer, I hope you can being an awakening to this nation to stop abortions, enlighten the people of the hidden secrets of our government's mistreatment of our children, parents, and families, and empower many to seek God's help to stop our own nation's ruin. What can be done to stop the madness of our children being harmed and families being destroyed, by a government agency, Child Protection Service, which claims to “PROTECT CHILDREN” and “PRESERVE FAMILIES? Our government will not acknowledge, listen, or act, upon the tragic harm they cause. With black and white evidence of what harm and destruction they are causing, they are not concerned. The lives and voices of children go unheard.

To those who need the truth to explain why so many children die each year in the nation of The United States, especially the state of Indiana . This letter does not even begin to mention the concern of the untold numbers of “to be children” abortions done in secrecy in this state and nation, but also of a lack of Indiana’s ability to accurately perform autopsies for the children murdered under the care of the state, in order to, prosecute the perpetrator, which is not mandated. This would allow the citizens to be aware of how many children die under the state care, (direct lack of care), for the children they are supposed to be “protecting’!! Department of Children, known as Child Protection Services, CPS for short, is a government agency for a child trafficking business, a BIG money business, NOT a “protection” agency.

Our children are being abused and killed at the hands of strangers and parents are loosing their entire hope for a piece of themselves to carry on in this world after they pass. Cultures and family heritages are being demolished by those that are to "protect". Until I was forced to witness how CPS truly functions within a secret circle of deception, I never knew the depths of sorrow that could be felt, after witnessing first hand, the crimes CPS has done to so many, and continues to do the same, today.

Crimes committed by Child Protection Services and their affiliates, judges who are comfortable being passive and willing to allow both parents and children to be victimized, is the utter and complete destruction of many lives. The truth is that the government agency, CPS, which is to protect children, fails to do so. The belief that the elected officials will respond to their own constituents when the constituents plead and cry many letters out, phone calls, and walk-ins to the offices, for the help to save a child's life, is only a belief, without any truth or action upon the elected officials to note otherwise. Child Protection Services is allowed to walk about as a god. They refuse to follow any law, act carelessly with the well-being and well-fare of the family unity, the parent’s character, and safety of the child. Child Protection Services have no one to answer to, they investigate themselves, their freedom to use falsification and deception in the judicial courts, is their greatest power, second, to the strongest force of using fear, to make parents sign papers of CHINS and whatever else, as parents are told they will never see their children again if they refuse to sign the CPS paperwork. CASA and Guardian et Lit-em, and all other CPS affiliates will do the same. CPS is a breed of government that would make Hitler rise from his grave and smile.

Sadness, great sadness, is all that can be said, when one awakens to the facts that surround the numbers of children removed from their homes, alienation from their parents, and siblings scattered into different foster homes. Families are devastated by mere hearsay and biased subjective emotions of a social worker or case manager, and a judges’ disregard for the oath taken. The Constitution is disregarded.

The truth is that many parents, who love and care for their children, are defamed without the ability to protect themselves or their children from the perjury and falsification of court documents done by the state workers. Children who are abused by foster parents are afraid to speak up, for fear of not being listened to. The truth is that CPS, Juvenile judges, do not honor the taken oath, "For liberty and justice for all”, as hearsay, mere hearsay, is judged upon. No truth, no evidence, no facts, and no objective black and white clinical evidence, just hearsay.

The truth is that many children are in foster care due to the lack of the government agency, Child Protection Services, to assess, identify if an allegation has any validity, promote family relationships, intervene with careful planning to maintain family well-being, ability to evaluate all situations, and most importantly, CPS workers, fail to report factual truth. CPS workers function on hearsay, lies, deceptions, falsification of court records, and are willing to ignore the harm a child is in by the person CPS places the child into their care. CPS workers have no concern or fear to be held accountable or responsible for the accuracy of their actions. If anyone thinks this agency has oversight to protect the citizens, that person is very wrong.

This agency’s actions and functions are Criminality and extremely UN-Constitutional!! Not to mention, CPS is allowed to violate the Human Rights, as so does all government agencies, who ignore the crimes, perjury, and falsificaiton of court documents written by CPS. No one has 'Jurisdiction" of CPS. They walk about as a god!! Never held accountable or responsible for their failures and deliberate actions to terrorized families.

Many have cried out for help, but no one has jurisdiction of CPS. As parents give testimony on a website;
www.honkforkids.com
www.honkforkids.com/
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Monday, November 16, 2009

UP-COMING RADIO SHOW



Christian talk show that deals with real issues! The real news that is suppressed is the minority on major cable networks- it is obsessed and major here on the Derek Dreamer Show!!!!!!

Please come and join us, WEDNESDAY NIGHT @ 10pm... It's going to be a very interesting discussion as Derek has a way of setting issues on fire! We'll be discussing the injustice that has been done to Lorraine Tipton and other injustices done with family values and the family unity as a whole.


http://www.blogtalkradio.com/derekdreamer/2009/11/19/interview-w-abigail-lurae

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Petition the World!


My husband is a quiet man, and a great listener. As he turned all of his attention on me, while I was telling him about Lorraine's situation, he simply stated, "everyone needs to have a petition drawn up to have that judge removed."

"What a great idea!" I exclaimed, "there's a petition going around for Lorraine and Michaela right now, so why not a petition to have that judge removed from her case, or even the bench?"

My husband smiled at me, "get all of your internet friends to start petitioning the hell out of the world, and in your friend's case, get that petition going and then turn it into the prosecuting attorney's office. Someone is bound to listen there. If not? Hit the general attorney's office with it!"

Words of wisdom from such a wonderful man. *smile* After he gave me a kiss and told me, he had to go get his truck fixed, my mind went into over-drive.

I began to wonder more about what has gotten into our legal representatives? They're sworn in via swearing to uphold the law and seek justice, as the truth will prevail, (or supposedly, prevail...) Sadly, who's justice are they seeking though and who's truth is prevailing?

In the case of the judge in Lorraine's circumstance, I also have to wonder, what legal books did he go through to base his intolerable decision on? We're suppose to have laws to help and protect the victims of abuse and child abuse- I certainly don't think they were set in place to help the abuser, abuse some more! At least, I don't think that was the underlying intention, was it?

It has been a world-wide statement of recent years past, "children are our future generations." What type of future generations is society hoping to gain when children are thrown to the wolves all of the time?

Children are taught from an early age within the schools to tell officials if they're being abused, or if there's presence of illegal things within their homes. They're constantly encouraged to basically, "kiss and tell." Officials listen to them then. So, why won't Lorraine's judge, (also an official,) or any judge, for that matter, listen to the child now? This seems to be a contradiction in terms, doesn't it?

Unfortunately, I have ended up with more questions than resolutions, but I do think my husband just might be onto something. If people start having more and more petitions drawn up, and more and more signatures are applied, what is it going to hurt? At least voices are being spoken, and maybe, just maybe, we can out number the, "so called, officials."

Can you imagine a new law, "No more petitions?" Food for thought...

Friday, November 13, 2009

Mother Jailed for Trying to Protect Her Child




I received word yesterday of a mother, whom was sentenced and jailed for thirty days, for not forcing her eleven year old daughter, (Michaela,) to return home to her abusive father.

This mother by the name of LORRAINE TIPTON, has been fighting the system for quite some time now and has followed all of the judicial rules while jumping through every hoop possible. She is a very concerned and loving mother who has tried for the past few years to obey all court orders even when it meant making her daughter go and stay with her sexually and abusive father. Michaela is afraid to be with him as she feels she's not safe in his care. She say's she'd much rather go to a foster home than to be in his care.

Respected mental health professionals have met with Michaela and believes she is telling the truth, and Child Protective Services have interviewed her too, with the conclusion of a substantiated report against her father for his sexual abuse.

MICHAELA has requested to speak to the judge, but sadly, he refuses to allow this child's voice to be heard and has stated, that her mother will not be released from jail unless this child goes to her father's. Lorraine's sentence will be continually renewed until the child gives in and returns to her abuser. I find this totally appalling and unacceptable!

Please take a look at the petition that has been drawn up in support of Lorraine and her daughter, and please sign it! Let your voice be heard!

http://www.thepetitionsite.com/217/petition-for-lorraine-tipton-and-michaela

Let this particular judge know, WE WILL NOT TOLERATE ANY KIND OF ABUSE IN ANY FORM ANY LONGER! Judicial abuse has to end right along with the domestic abuse!!